In general, we always see the guys who like to go to have drinks at Beergarden but we rarely meet women and a group of family to dine out at Beergarden. That is the topic I raised to make discussion with all of friends when we had always organized monthly small party. There are some points found for why men like to dine out.
- It is because of stress at workplace, therefore they have drinks with friends or co-workers in order to relax the stress
- In order to accomplish their negotiation, they choose the place for drinks to make close relation with their partners
- The guys like to find girls for their pleasure such as beer workers, singers and so on
- The quarrels in the family is a point to make men go out and drink with friends.
All points that we found does not mean that they are perfect. By the way, we still have missing points relating to why guys to dine out at Beergarden. Therefore, I would like all of you to add some missing points.
Well, i partly agree. However, I suggest some explaination on resons #2 and #4. In fact, it sounds as exuses that most men expressed to justify their behavior. It is the government attitude to go to karaoke or nightclub to endorse any agreement. If we do want to work on any issue with clear commitment, regardless any workplace, we can fix out. Plus the exuse that men leave out home to avoid conflict or put it straight forward, because the wife keep asking or blaming them, shows that men are irresponsible. They did not try to understand their wife/family need, but just meet his own desire. Why dn’t men try to change situation, start seeking the problem, and solve, insteat ignore the problem or bypass the issue.
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Not every body has the same taste, some like beergarden, some like the foreign pub, some like to cross to other side of the bridge and some like to drink at home subject to their intentions.
Not everyone goes to beergarden to escape from the problem at home, and sure that not many go there to look for girl either. Some likes the environment, some might know people in that particular beergarden where they think they are being looked after and safe.
For me, I like to go to some where to eat and drink and I know that my safety is guaranteed as well.
Thanks Sopheap and Angkor138 for your participating to give good ideas. I just raised this top in order to get more ideas from all of you about the character of men who like to go to Beergarden or nightclub.
Yeah, some men think when they are stressed out, they want to release it. I think if men really wanted to have some truly nice fun talking with friends, they wouldn’t choose Beergarden as a recreation place. Right, men?
I think men who go to Beergarden have given up their responsibilities and shut all their sensible feelings…off they go!!!